How to be a femdom

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Within the kink community, there are all types of dominant and submissive roles, each with their own layer of nuance. Think of gentle femdom as female domination without the elements of pain, harsh punishment, or humiliation. It can be sexual, only BDSM-based, or role-based. As Carol Queen , PhD, resident sexologist at Good Vibrations , says, gentle femdom is more infused with love and nurturing. The erotic component of gentle femdom can be pleasure-focused or it can just be about dominance without pain and intensity that is often associated with non-gentle kink play. Not at all!

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Welcome to the club of women who, upon discovering an interest in BDSM , met or sought out a submissive male to start a kinky relationship with, and who are eager to learn how to dominate your man like a pro the opposite of Fifty Shades of Grey. Learning how to be a Dominatrix isn't just about doling out the pain and roll play. Learning how to dominate a male sub means adopting the right language, confidence, costume, and set of tools to provide the man who has given himself up to your control with everything he needs from you, his chosen partner. It's important to remember that even a Dominatrix needs consent, and actually, consent is a very important rule in the BDSM scene because you want to play the Dom but you also don't want to force your submissive into anything he doesn't feel comfortable doing. Many Doms establish safety and consent through a safe word before getting started. Asking for what you want during sex can be sexy and not always a mood killer. You can ask things like: "I'm going to rip your clothes off now, okay?

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Click here to get it. Is there anything hotter than a woman clad in PVC or a corset with a flogger or paddle in her hand as she stands over her bound submissive partner? With the right partner, props and even costume, that image could be you! Side Note: I put together this in-depth assesment that will uncover just how good you are at giving oral sex and satisfying your man. It may uncover some uncomfortable truths, or you may discover that you are already a queen at giving blow jobs.
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